Sunday, August 26, 2012

The Dog Days of Summer


Recently Bill and I enjoyed a date night, which included dinner and a walk. This seems so simple and trite, but as it turned out, not so.

We began our evening with dinner at Jakes, a local burger establishment. Being a cool evening, we opted to sit on the patio. This patio also allows four pawed patrons to join their two-footed friends. Overhearing the ladies at the table next to us, I assumed they were speaking with a young girl named Callie. I thought, “How cute, another Callie.” Our youngest daughter is Callie and rarely do we hear of another one. As we continued our dinner, we watched a couple of frolicking dogs run across the golf course fairway. Suddenly there was shrill barking and Callie all but knocked me out of my seat trying to join the fun. It was then that I realized, no, this barking furry friend was not another girl sharing my daughter’s name. She was a dog! Alas, still no other Callie.

We finished dinner and decided to take an evening stroll to burn off those burgers. While it was still overcast, the weather didn’t seem ominous. We walked our usual route. When we came upon an intersection, we saw two dogs dutifully waiting for the light to change. When the light changed they crossed. Once they crossed they decided to join us. Because they had on tags, I thought it would be prudent to contact the owner and report the dogs (Winston and Grayson) on the loose. The grateful owners came to rescue their escapees at once. But before they arrived the derelict pups took off in a different direction. Sadly, we had to bear the unwelcome news that they had given us the slip.

The dog lover in me was going to worry about these dogs all the way home, but I did not get the chance. The weather took a change for the worse. We were about a half a mile from home when thunder, lightning and rain took over the sky. As the thunder rolled, and the lightning struck we walkers became runners. The rain didn’t bother us one bit, but the celestial electricity did! However, we had rescuers. A couple stopped and insisted that we get in their car. Soaking wet, we refused, yet they insisted. As we closed the door, the woman, (who had been on the phone) said to her husband, “Our granddaughter is afraid we may have picked up criminals. Are we sure they don’t have a gun?” Really?

These lovely neighbors that we had never met promptly and safely dropped us off at home. I later learned that Winston and Grayson had been collected. They too, were home, sweet home. It is said that these are “The Dog Days of Summer.” I believe it.

What a date night!

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Symbiotic Summer



After having lived some fifty-seven summers, I have learned that they are all too fleeting. This one in particular seems to going by at warp speed. This summer began with my daughter-in-law and grandson coming for an extended stay. While waiting on their house closing in Denver, Amanda mused that they were living as gypsies. I, on the other hand, have never been happier than to have the “gypsies” bless our home with fun and laughter. 

Please note that with Riley and Amanda came two Pomeranian pooches. Include our three furry friends and that expanded the pack to five. In a house with a toddler and five dogs, it is reasonable to assume life can get chaotic and at the same time, amusing.

In the mix of dogs is one large, old, wolf-husky with a heart of gold. But, he is rarely alone. Moses comes equipped with his own symbiotic sidekick, Sadie. Sadie is a little Japanese Chen that adores Moses and is always at his side. Amanda suggested that Moses and Sadie reminded her of a white rhino with his own oxpecker. (Now we all know from elementary school science that symbiotic relationships are beneficial both for the host and the parasite. The rhino stays bug free, and the oxpecker stays full and satisfied.) As it turns out, that is true of these two dogs, as well. They have a companionship like no other. Then here comes trouble in the form of a sixteen-month-old fan of extremely large dogs, Riley Walker Eldridge!
White Rhino and Oxpecker
Sadie and Moses

Much to the dismay of Lady Sadie Sarah, she had to share her best friend with her nemesis Riley. Riley, more often than not, was seen climbing or sitting on a dog much larger than he or trying to pull the ears of Miss Sadie, queen of the house. Sadie’s life changed dramatically, as did that of Moses.
Tormenting Sadie
Best Buds!

The tables had turned. Moses had become the oxpecker to Riley. He tolerated behavior that would send most dogs over the edge, but never the less he protected and followed Riley everywhere. Moses is no fool. He instinctively knew that symbiotic relationships are an excellent thing. At some point, a baby will spill, leaving behind a snack for a devoted and loyal friend!

Saturday, June 16, 2012

Thoughts on Endings and Reunions


Now that the “Three Weeks to the Suit” mission has ended, I have renamed my blog “Happy to be at Home.” That’s because, I am. I have had several months to ponder the reasons that I left teaching, a career that I loved. I know I did the right thing in doing so. One’s priorities and dignity must come first. I left my students abruptly, and it was certainly one of the hardest things I have ever done. I let them down. They are too young to understand adult issues, and I understand that. But we must prioritize. God first, then family, and finally, career. This time family trumped career. I’m at peace with my decision, and that’s what matters. Thank you for indulging me for a moment. Now I shall move on.

It seems as though we are celebrating our 40th high school reunion next week. I have not committed to going, but probably will attend. One of my best friends is coming from Virginia and has managed to shame me into making an appearance. I think her words were something like, “I never used to HAVE to talk you into playing and laughing.”

The reunion has possibilities. I was in a class of about one thousand students. I was only average, and I don’t think I will be remembered. But, as it turns out, I remember many faces and too much of what happened in those days. I don’t know why I have this silly gift (or curse), but I do. It will be fun to see who else is able to remember the class of 1972!
Top picture, my sophomore year. Bottom picture, my fifth grade class. I am first row first student. 

Saturday, June 2, 2012

The Aftermath!

My goddaughter's wedding was as beautiful as I knew it would be. Jenny sparkled like a fairy tale princess and her smile lit the world on fire. God smiled too and made sure it was a perfect evening on the Gulf Coast Beach.

Jenny's wedding was held at St. Thomas Catholic Church in Long Beach, Mississippi. The beautiful church is new, as Katrina, in her fury, took the original structure, but the love and memories are still there. It is a place that will always be treasured by the families of the coast, and our family, as well. Not only, was Jenny baptized at St. Thomas, so were our four children. Our two oldest children also made their First Communion there. I was so excited to be part of this parish and to return and share it with Callie, my last to be baptized there. She was too young to remember much of Long Beach, but was amazed at how God has His hand in this place!

"What about the "suit?", you ask. I am sorry to say that the "suit" didn't make the cut. I thought that it was the epitome of my style, my flair if you will. It wasn't at all. Let's talk tacky. It was too shiny, too tight at the top, too long and baggy at the bottom (how the hell did that happen?), and what about those buttons? Thank goodness for Anne Taylor. The problem was resolved with a truly flattering navy shift and a pair of wedge, ankle strapped sandals. I fit right in. It turns out we have all aged. It is not a terrible thing. The twenty years I missed in Mississippi not only changed me, it had changed my friends. And I'd like to add, though we are now twenty years older, we are twenty years better. Ah, the gift of time!

So all of my days of running and dieting were good for my health, but not 
necessary for lasting friendships. What I learned from "Three Weeks to the Suit" is in the immortal words of Dr. Seuss, "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." And these lovely friends from long ago don't mind, they matter!
This isn't the end of the "Suit." Keep following.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

More Three Weeks to the Suit

Today, considering "the suit," I was planning to step out of my comfort zone and ride my bike to work off those pesky famous five pounds. When I walked into the garage to get my bike I saw a horrific mess. I thought,"a little clean up prior to my bike ride?" I had to decide. Not a difficult question for me. Did I mention that I am intimidated by the bike, scared of the bike, terrified of the bike? I know I need to dominate the bike, but the garage clean up was necessary and it won!

I removed all the junk from the garage and took it to the front yard for trash pick up. That little clean up lasted several hours. Though I found many memories (that I treasure), I also found and a lot of stuff that should have remained with their owners (my children), not in my storage. But that's another story and okay with me.

Boxes are now organized and labeled. Each of my offspring may pick up their belongings and remove them from my garage at their earliest convenience.


My quest for "the suit" will continue.  Perhaps, tomorrow I will ride the bike…maybe!

Monday, May 7, 2012

Days 5-9: Three Weeks to the Suit

My make-over took me a different direction these last few days. I took some time for celebration and enjoyment. They are both invaluable tools in redirecting one's karma. Diet and exercise are essential as we all know, and we put effort in achieving these goals. But what about our souls? Too often we don't get enough time to laugh, love, and celebrate.

On Friday, we were fortunate to get to enjoy a celebration for our daughter Callie. She has been teaching and working hard to earn her Texas teaching certificate through a state program. Callie completed her efforts and, as a family we had the opportunity to celebrate together. One of our favorite places is Kobe Steaks. We convened to honor Callie's acheivement. Because she comes from a long line of educators, this was an extra special and memorable moment for us. Thank you Memo and Nana for getting started down that road!

Secondly, I spent a couple of days relaxing with my daughter Meg. We spent "Sunday, Funday" enjoying the ambience of Austin. We started with brunch downtown, then worked our way through the city with shopping, wine, tapas, and visiting with friends. The atmosphere of Austin is one of harmony and peace in an eccentric environment. Good for the soul.

I realize that none of this did anything to assure the loss of the "famous five," but doggone it, my spirits are soaring! Who knows what will happen with the suit?

                                                                     Meg and Dee

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Day 4: Three Weeks to the Suit

Today, Day 4 of my do-it yourself three week make-over, I had my hair cut and highlighted. There's something about a brand new hairdo that makes you feel all tingly inside. Especially if they get it right. I actually walked out of Toni and Guy at Galleria with a smile on my face and a lilt in my step. So, today's message is brief. Sometimes it's about the outfit, sometimes it's about the shoes and then sometimes it's just about great cut, color and bangs. But the best is, Bill says says my new "do" makes me look ten years younger and he never comments on hair!


TTFN!

Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Day 3: Three Weeks to the Suit

While I was out running last night under the big Texas sky, I had some revelations. First, life is good even though sometimes we may think it isn't. And second, a quote I once heard. "Women are Angels…And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly…Usually on a broomstick. We are flexible like that." Both of these thoughts made perfect sense considering my situation. Last night, these thoughts seemed momentous.

So this morning, those thoughts still in mind brought me back to the "suit". Is it that important? Other things have happened in my life lately that make me feel perplexed and insignificant. My career is gone per my choice. I have a whole new life with a different set of responsibilities. Do I need to continue the pursuit of the suit? I decided to take today off from running. It seemed that, after 3 days in a row, I needed a break from exercise. All I actually wanted to do tonight was sit down with a glass of wine and watch TV. 

However, we don't always get what we want. When I came home from errands and carpool, I learned the suit had won. What I found when I walked in the front door sent me right back out again ready to pound the pavement (after the clean-up). Ahh, the suit and the dogs!



Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Day Two: Three Weeks to the Suit

At this point, I must digress a bit, about a twenty something year digression.

I left Long Beach, Mississippi as an in shape mother of four young children. I was the mom that when people saw us out and about asked, "Are they all yours?" Life rocked along famously for said children and me (and my figure). Then I hit 40! Not only did that joyful event transpire, but I was also invited to go back to TEACHING! Need I say more about what happened to my waistline and my wardrobe.

Let's move ahead 17 years. On March 5th, I resigned my position as a teacher for personal reasons. A few days later I took inventory. What I found was a shortdumpy school marm with several pair of polyester pants and "smock" shirts. I was hiding myself under that lovely wardrobe. Horrified, I decided it was time to do something to fix this problem. So my journey began.

As I have been at this venture for two months now, I find myself in much better shape (the outfits given to charity--if they even want them) and a much better place. But, I still have that "famous five" pounds that need to go in order to wear the pink suit from years ago! Hence, Day Two: Three Weeks to the Suit continues.

Check in tomorrow for further details.

Monday, April 30, 2012

Day One: Three Weeks to the Suit

Today I woke up and realized I have only three weeks left before attending my beautiful goddaughter's wedding in Mississippi. Having been invited to other events prior to the nuptials as well, I of course need to look my best. Much of this plays into the fact that I haven't seen most of these people in several years. Who would like to go back to a small town 20 plus years later looking 20 plus years older? Not me! Today I begin the almost impossible, a three week makeover designed for me, by me. 
Wish me luck. And remember, it's all about the pink silk suit and my extended "family" in Mississippi!